Wednesday, January 9, 2013

How do I love thee? You tell me!




Will anybody who loved to be told how much they are loved rise? Certainly, there are multitude rising. Thanks for the cooperation. Just wanted to know though and confirm that the fact that most or should I say almost all of the people want to hear comforting words at all times. Is there anybody that can be considered as an exemption? Answer is, NO ONE. 

It feels great and comforting to hear directly from someone how much you are loved, cared, important, desired, etc.. etc.. We don’t really feel tired of hearing the same words, errr flattering words (to say it right) all over again. Even if we have been told for like millionth of times each day, we still prefer to hear the same compliments from the people so dear to us. 

However, there are some people who are not vocal about what they feel. Yes, you read it right. There are some who are not. Do you think you will like it if your lover is not expressive while you are? Getting across this idea reminds me of a particular scene from The O.C. It was the part when Marissa Cooper embraced her boyfriend Ryan Atwood and unintentionally whispered “I love you”. Ryan was taken aback and replied “Thank you”. Isn’t that awkward? Well to some it is not, to some it is. 

Any situation depends on how you view it. However, there were times when all we need is to hear the exact things and words that we expect. While it is true that less expectation means less frustration and depression, what really drives us to move forward and be motivated are those expectations and hopes that we kept deep inside us.

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